Jesus said in John 10:10, the thief comes not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.
My wife and I were talking last night about enjoying life. I've always done my best to enjoy what each day brings and of course some days were better than others. Some of my most enjoyable days were serving and helping others. In the ministry I had long days and very little family time. There were times where I had to cancel a vacation or cut it short because of a death or need. I would always tell my wife to be patient that God would give us the time we need to enjoy one another and He always did.